OK, here's how it works, to reserve your ideal man post his name on the community and wait for it to be added to the list!!!!! Which can be view above under 'View the list of Reserves!' Easy enough...well we'll see!!!
WARNING - only ONE reserve per man, the poor dude can only cope with one of us hungry lasses!!! lol BUT, one community member can have up to TWO reserves at any one time. If you want another and have two already post up on the LJ and tell me and I will amend THE LIST wooohhaaaaa lol